Abigail’s Party spoke to a sexually frustrated generation of women

When it opened at Hampstead Theatre in April 1977, Mike Leigh’s now seminal play was an instant hit. Such a hit, in fact, that the BBC swooped in and filmed it as a Play for Today, thus immortalising Alison Steadman’s name-making performance as screeching suburban siren Beverley, who presides over the drinks party from hell. Forty nine years on and our admiration for this acutely observed drama of marital rifts, class consciousness and sexual frustration burns just as brightly, with a production starring Tamzin Outhwaite arriving in the West End for a limited summer run.

The scene opens on the perfect snapshot of a 1970s home, with dreadful wallpaper crowding in on the three-piece suite and the drinks cabinet. Outhwaite’s Beverley shimmies on in a slinky orange kaftan, dancing to the sort of music guaranteed to irk her henpecked husband Laurence (Kevin Bishop), a man who prides himself on higher cultural aspirations (he’s delighted with his unread leather-bound volumes of Dickens and Shakespeare). New neighbours, excitable Angela and taciturn Tony, have been invited over, as has quiet Sue, whose teenage daughter Abigail is hosting the unseen titular gathering. The drinks start to flow and Bev wastes no time in flirting furiously with Tony.

As Steadman established and Outhwaite confirms, Beverley is a larger-than-life force, a character we love to hate as she mocks and teases the others. She has an uncanny way of sniffing out a person’s weak spot and prodding at it, such as her repeated references to Sue’s divorce and single status and her disdain for Laurence’s effortfully assumed cultural preferences (Laurence is determined to like the olive, that upwardly mobile seventies picky bit). Yet, however much we may relish our dislike of Bev, there is something in her that speaks to us all and our baser but instantly recognisable instincts, not least her sexual and romantic frustration.

TELEVISION PROGRAMMES: Abigail's Party. Aison Steadman pictured as Beverly, with Tim Stern as Laurence, in a scene from Mike Leigh's television play, first broadcast in 1977. In August 2003, Abigail's Party topped a Radio Times poll of the best-ever TV programmes.

Watching Nadia Fall’s enjoyable production, I was struck by a startling realisation about the agency, or lack thereof, afforded to all three female characters, in financial, sexual, emotional and professional spheres. Bev doesn’t work and boasts to the others about Laurence paying for any hairdo/dress/manicure she desires, but the mere fact that Laurence is the income generator and distributor of financial largesse is profoundly significant. What if he decided to withdraw it?

Angela does work, as a nurse, but Tony “won’t let” her learn to drive. Sue, with her firmly middle-class status and larger, older house (suggesting the others live in more garish ‘new builds’) is resigned to the fact that she will have to move somewhere significantly smaller in her inevitable future as a lone female when the children have left home. Pandora Colin gives a superlative – or perhaps that should be sue-perlative – performance as this unassuming woman who would just like some proper dinner, instead of the cheese and pineapple sticks presented on a tinfoil hedgehog.

LONDON, ENGLAND - AUGUST 17: (L-R) Omar Malik, Tamzin Outhwaite, Lauren Patel and Pandora Colin perform on stage during the photocall for "Abigail's Party" at The Harold Pinter Theatre on August 17, 2026 in London, England. (Photo by Jo Hale/Getty Images)

We’re reminded of how greatly the (suburban) status system of the 1970s depended on a woman’s role as a wife and mother rather than professional accomplishment and how sexual longing and emotional literacy were not matters that were readily open for discussion in a marriage.

It’s immensely hard to imagine the 2026 iteration of Beverley settling for the stasis of her status quo. Would she even bother to get married? And imagine her let loose on social media with a couple of generous gin and tonics inside her. We might not like Bev very much, but when viewed through a feminist revisionist lens we can certainly muster a fair degree of sympathy for her gilded lack of options.

Abigail’s Party is at the Harold Pinter Theatre to 19 September (atgtickets.com

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