As anti-tourism protests sweep Southern Europe, in major holiday hotspots in Spain and Portugal, the wider impact of holidaymakers on local life, communities and its people have never been more under scrutiny. While demonstrations mainly target issues surrounding crowding, housing and cost of living, much backlash is also directed at tourist conduct – noise, disrespect and bad behaviour. Maybelle Morgan is a writer who moved from London to Lisbon a year ago. She talks to residents and expats in Spain and Portugal about their tips to stay respectful and avoid annoying locals on holidays.
My face burned as several people turned around to look at me. As usual, I knew I had done something wrong but I wasn’t sure what. In the two months since I had moved from London to Lisbon, I had become an expert in putting a foot wrong, apologising, and making a mental note to not do whatever it was I had done again.
On this day, I went to a tabacaria (tobacco shop/newsagents) to pick up a parcel. As I neared the counter, headphones on, I didn’t notice an older Portuguese man in his mid-60s quietly enter the shop, pick up a newspaper and bypass the five-person line to stand next to me at the front. As the shopkeeper instructed “próximo” (“next”) and I stepped up to the counter, the older man tutted, waved his hands disapprovingly, tossed the paper back on the stand and stormed out of the shop.
In the UK, the general rule of thumb is that you queue and wait until it’s your turn. (They don’t say that Brits love a queue for nothing!) I’ve rarely seen people ever let an older person jump the queue. Whereas in Portugal, in supermarkets, banks, shops, restaurants, pharmacies, it is legally required to always give priority to older adults above 65 and let them go in front of you. Everyone abides by it – as do I now.
It’s just one of the many cultural blunders I’ve made having lived in Portugal for a year now. Over that time period, I’ve irritated my fair share of locals, and as a result, absorbed insider knowledge of the cardinal sins that tourists commit. It goes without saying, but loudly exclaiming how cheap things are in the country, clogging up the roads for Instagram photos, and speaking in broken Spanish – in Portugal! – probably won’t win you any fans. I spoke to four locals and expats in Spain and Portugal about their advice on how not to annoy locals.

The kitchen gadgets under £25

Victorinox paring knife
It’s comfortable to hold, with a point sharp enough for scoring pastry.
ProCook cast iron pan
For unbeatable searing and heat-retention, cast iron is the top choice.


Tesco chopping board
Priced at just £22, I’ve yet to find another board that matches it for sheer value and quality.
The kitchen gadgets under £25
Pyrex jug
It is the perfect vessel for blending smooth sauces, melting butter, or warming stock. It won’t stain like plastic and the red measurements never fade.


Salter scales
“I’ve had my slim little set of Salter Disc Scales for over a decade, and I’m delighted to see they are still made to exactly the same reliable design today.”
Microplane grater
It uses photo-etched stainless steel teeth that stay razor-sharp for a decade, something the lookalike copycats simply can’t match.
Braun hand-held blender
It’s an essential for everything from making velvety soup to getting the lumps out of white sauce.
Bodum cafetiere
As well as delivering great results, cafetieres are easy to clean and there’s no ongoing filter paper costs or pod recycling to deal with.
The kitchen gadgets under £25
Oxo peeler
What truly sets it apart is the chunky, rubberised handle that absorbs pressure and stays completely non-slip, even if your hands are wet. It is inexpensive and incredibly durable.


Falcon pie dish
Made by fusing porcelain onto heavy-gauge steel for smooth durability, it is dishwasher, freezer, hob, air-fryer and oven-safe.
The golden rules for a happy, secure relationship
Psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr Amir Levine, author of bestselling book , explains why we behave the way we do in love.

Golden rules for happy relationships
Start with your own behaviours
The foundation of a secure, connected life is being what I call CARRP: that means being consistent, available, responsive, reliable and predictable. All of these qualities can be enacted in small gestures every day.


Express your needs
People need consistency and connection to feel safe. This is not, ‘You hurt my feelings by never replying to me’, it’s more ‘this is the kind of contact that helps me feel secure’.
Golden rules for happy relationships

The appendix ‘inflammation’ rule
If a relationship repeatedly inflames your nervous system, you need to disengage and deprioritise it.
Lean on community
You don’t need hundreds of friends. You need people and places that regularly remind you that you belong.


Stop blaming childhood
Humans are much more complicated than: ‘this happened to you, therefore you are doomed to be anxious’.

Reach for a
secure script
When something unsettles you in a relationship, your first reaction is not always the most accurate one.
If you’re anxious, your brain may jump very quickly to: ‘this is the beginning of the end’. If you’re avoidant, your brain may say: ‘this person wants too much from me, I need to get away’. So one very practical thing you can always do is pause and ask: ‘What would a secure person do here?’
Loneliness elsewhere
When people talk about loneliness, they often assume it means you don’t have enough people in your life. But you can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely if those relationships leave you feeling excluded, ignored or disconnected.

What to do
- Build a community that works for your temperament and gives you regular, reliable moments of connection.
- You can still be kind to people while not treating them as someone who belongs in your inner circle.
- Explain what you need. Sometimes people simply don’t realise how you are experiencing them.
- Check in with people: does this person actually feel that I’m reliable? Do they experience me as predictable? That’s the only way that you can start to become more secure.

Do some foods leave
you feeling hungry rather than satiated? Experts say there are…
Foods that leave you hungrier
A bowl of cereal and glass of orange juice
More refined cereals are digested quickly, and fruit juice, whilst one of your five-a-day, contains less fibre than whole fruit. This might mean you find yourself hungry again within 1-2 hours of eating this breakfast.


Swap the orange juice for a whole orange, the cereal for oats and milk or serve it with Greek yoghurt or a boiled egg. This would increase the fibre and protein content; two nutrients strongly linked with fullness.
Foods that leave you hungrier

These pastries are made primarily from refined flour and butter, and are relatively low in protein and fibre.
Toast and jam


Shop-bought packs can contain a lot of white rice, which is digested quickly, and the protein content is often modest.
Foods that leave you hungrier

Vegetable soup
On its own, it is often very low in protein and calories, so hunger can return quickly.
Unless it’s loaded with veggies, it’s probably pretty low in fibre.


Liquids are generally less filling as they require little chewing which may not trigger satiety signals.
Foods that leave you hungrier

Snack bars
They are ideal for a quick pick-me-up, but if reducing hunger is what you’re after, it’d be better to swap it out.
Low-fat yoghurt
A full-fat plain Greek yoghurt with berries and seeds tends to be much more filling due to the protein, fat and fibre.


On an empty stomach, it can actually increase your appetite.
What to eat instead
Instead of thinking about avoiding foods, think about what you can add to them.
- Add beans, lentils or shredded chicken to your vegetable soup and pasta.
- Thicken your smoothies with Greek yoghurt, chia seeds and oats.
- Apple slices with peanut butter, yogurt with berries and hummus with oat biscuits are better snack options than a pre-made snack bar.
- Have alcohol alongside a balanced meal containing protein and fibre.
How to age well
without pain
Will Harlow, a physiotherapist
for the over-50s and author of Independence for Life, shares
the key signs you’re ageing
badly – and what to do about it.

How to know
Ageing well is maintaining the ability to do what you want you want for as long as you want without needing help. Everyone is talking about longevity but what’s the point in living longer if the last decade is painful and you’re [totally] reliant on people?”

The signs to look out for

- The most obvious early warning sign of bad ageing is pain says Harlow.
- Another is losing confidence in doing daily tasks, which can quickly lead to a lack of independence.
- One call Harlow often receives is people calling after having a fall and struggling to get up.
How to age without pain

Not just stopping
When people retire, they often put their feet up and stop. Your body really is use it or lose it.
Throughout our entire lives, Harlow says we need between seven and nine hours of sleep.


Social isolation
The lack of connection can increase the risk of premature death by
as much as 29 per cent.
Strength training
It really is the proxy for
overall independence.
The more muscle mass you have, the less chance of heart disease, diabetes, falls and even anxiety, depression and dementia.

The brain can be linked to muscle mass too, Harlow says. It’s not just about being able to lift things. It gives you more energy, better sleep and you’ll look and feel better.
How to age without pain
Daily habits
Do short bursts of exercise, between 30 and 60 seconds, in otherwise dead time during the day.


Stretch in bed
Take joints through a full range of motion for five minutes to loosen it before getting up.
Don’t crash diet

How to age without pain

Harlow advises 1.6 grams per kilogram of body weight to stop muscle loss alongside resistance training.
Don’t wait
Harlow finds that many patients put off making a change to their lifestyle until their lives are consumed by pain.


For most people, it’s about reducing the number of times per week you’re exercising, not reducing intensity.
The three ageing tests to do
- Lie completely flat on the floor and get back up to a standing position using any technique. This should take less than 10 seconds.
See how many times you can sit on the chair and stand back up again in 30 seconds. Men should be aiming for more than 14 times and women 12.
The single-leg stand, which involves standing on one leg and balancing for 10 seconds. Everyone should be able to do that and for those under 65, Harlow asks them to do it with their eyes closed.
Despite the job market hiring fewer entry-level roles, employers are still looking for grads…
But you should be prepared to keep an open mind.
We’ve compiled the sectors hiring graduate roles, what degree is required, and what they pay.

The degrees to choose for a career
Hiring in the UK could
finally be on the up
47%
of employers offered entry-level
positions from July.
That is up nearly 15 per cent from the same period last year.
700,000
But graduate unemployment rose to six per cent in 2025 and 700,000 jobless graduates were claiming benefits.
Finance and insurance
- Around 42 per cent of UK finance and insurance employers say they will be open to graduate roles this summer.
- Business loan company Portman Finance Group has taken on 50 graduates over the past four years.

Portman graduates start on £36,000 for the two-year programme and the education you need to apply is a minimum “ABB” of A-levels, and a 2:1 or above university degree. But not in a specific subject.

Trade and logistics
What makes it particularly rewarding is that there’s always something to learn.
Nearly half (47 per cent) of trade and logistics companies will be giving graduates a go this year.
Salaries start at £30,000 with an uncapped bonus, rising to £50,000 plus a company car as a senior account partner.
Public sector, health
and social services
46 per cent of public sector, health and social services organisations are also ready to take graduates, according to a survey by Manpower.

- For example, Police Now runs a graduate programme into policing. They recruit graduates from any degree field, as long as they achieve a 2:2 or above. Starting salaries range from £31,164 to £42,210 depending on location and rising each year.
Can we treat guests without blowing our budget?
According to Waitrose, a dinner party revival is underway led by younger people trying to reduce the cost of getting together.

Always have bread
People will feast on the
ELLA RISBRIDGER, AUTHOR OF THE KITCHEN BOOK – GOOD FOOD FOR EVERY DAY
bread, and then need less fish/steak/expensive whatever. All small plates restaurants know this: this is why the first thing on the menu is always artisan bread and butter.

Use vegetables as centrepieces


Add pantry items
Graham’s recipes include a braised cabbage with a preserved lemon sauce, a roast cauliflower with saffron, and harrisa roast carrots with mango labneh.
How to host on a budget

Improve the everyday
Guests will always appreciate a stellar interpretation of the ordinary. Think lasagna or curry.
Cooking dinner for your guests is spoiling them – you’re being generous with your time, your effort, and your home. So don’t feel the need to go overboard elsewhere.


Ask for help
Ask friends to bring a contribution, be it a nibble or a pudding.
Big platter energy
[Presentation] can be the key to elevating something . Spaghetti and tomato sauce suddenly looks like a feast when tumbled on a lovely big plate, dressed with olive oil and parmesan and placed in the middle of the table.
Food writer and editor Eleanor Steafel

How to host on a budget
Taco party
Have one expensive filling, like shredded chicken, and two cheaper options, like refried beans, says Ella Risbridger.


Shop-bought ice cream is so easily zhuzhed up with the help of handy toppings, says Eleanor Steafel.

Low-effort tricks for
a cleaner house
While many Britons feel inspired to tackle their homes during summer, the warmer months can also make cleaning harder.
But Lynsey Crombie, known as the Queen of Clean, says the hotter months can increase mould, musty smells and sweaty clothes.
Here, she shares the tips and practical
hacks she lives by.
A study of 1,000 UK residents by Domestic & General revealed that almost one in 10 Brits have never cleaned their washing machine, yet it could be grubbier than the toilet seat.


Crombie says after 30 washes, use 500 grams of soda crystals on the hottest wash to clean out the drum. If there’s sludge, run a quick rinse cycle with some white vinegar.
Always make sure to leave the door and drawer ajar for 10 minutes to dry out too and avoid stale smells.
Household ingredients to use

White vinegar
This is Crombie’s go to. It can descale the kettle and taps and deodorise places in her home.
Table salt
For tough stains like red wine, rub salt into the stain, leave overnight and wash as normal.


For stubborn water marks, use half a lemon and bicarbonate of soda and leave on for 30 minutes before rinsing.

Cold water is better
You’re damaging [wooden] floor [with hot water], making it expand, stretch
and cause gaps…
During hot days, Crombie says to avoid cleaning with hot water altogether to avoid adding humidity to the home.
“Cold water is much better, and if you’re using the right floor cleaning product, it’s still going to be clean,” she says.
Hacks for a cleaner home
Three is the magic number
Wash your towels after two to three uses and make sure they dry properly in-between.


Focus on hotspots
Clean the “high traffic” areas, like the toilets, kitchen worktops and the hallway daily.
Open the windows
To keep a home fresh open the windows for 15 minutes each day – even in colder months.

Hacks for a cleaner home

Stainless steel
Crombie’s hack is one product: Barkeeper’s Friend in powder form.
The expensive products
“If you spend more money, you get the floral scents. The difference is scent, not performance.”


Ignore online advice
The biggest issue she sees is product overuse. “You don’t need half a bottle of washing up liquid to clean a surface.”
Crombie’s essentials
Four products can do do a full clean of the house.
- Antibacterial washing-up liquid: “It can clean almost anything, and any brand works.”
- : It’s pet-friendly, eco-friendly and “ticks all the boxes.”
- Cif cream cleaner: “It’s an old school product. It’s so good.”
- White vinegar: ““It’s great for washing sportswear, gym kits and is a great stain remover.”

How to keep your sex life going in a heatwave
Don’t endure it
For some people, the heat and the sun boost the production of hormones responsible for joy, pleasure and connection like serotonin and dopamine. For others, the heat causes fatigue and irritability. For them, being touched can set off an anxiety response.
GEMMA NICE [BELOW]

Don’t endure sweaty cuddles
- Long-term partners can be upfront and honest with each other and say that it’s too hot to touch right now.
- For others, break the tension by having an open and honest conversation.
- Choose dates with built-in air conditioning, like the cinema.
- Don’t ignore the issue or
power through if you’re too hot.
How couples can manage a heatwave
Take penetrative sex off the table
It may make you feel lightheaded, tired, and can even lead to erectile dysfunction because the body is overheating.


Indulge in dirty talk instead
Because you aren’t distracted by physical movement, your focus is entirely on your partner’s voice. This can help build a massive amount of tension and sexual desire.
How couples can manage a heatwave

This syncs up your nervous systems and can trigger a deep, full-body energetic response.
Mutual play
Set up a fan and touch yourselves while looking directly into each other’s eyes, says Nice.


Strip and chill out
Just sharing the space and being close to each other can strengthen your bond.
Why you shouldn’t have
sex in the sea
- Water actually washes away
your body’s natural lubrication. - It creates friction against the delicate tissue.
- This can cause micro tears and severe irritation.
- It drastically increases the risk of getting a urinary tract infection (UTI) or a yeast infection.
Don’t treat the city like a theme park – real people live there
Drunken actions often have dangerous consequences, says Barcelona-born teacher and stand-up comedian Guillem González. He wants tourists to remember that cities are not a fake stage only built for their fun: real people live there.
“To me, balconing – jumping from a hotel balcony into a swimming pool – is a symbol of British behaviour in Spain,” he says. “Getting too drunk, being too loud, not caring about people around you. Brits are the number one at that. I know most British tourists won’t do it, but balconing is dangerous and stupid. My tip? Try not to be the loudest in the room. I understand you might want to go to Barcelona to party, and as much as Barcelona is a party city, it is more than that. Not everyone there is in party mode.”
Don’t block the pavement to take photos
For Barri, a content creator who runs a Barcelona travel account @worktravelb and has been living in the city since 2023, she has seen how Instagram and the desperation from holidaymakers to get the right shot can disrupt the daily lives of locals living in these cities.
“I used to be that person – I would film in the street, and for years I didn’t notice I was standing in someone’s commute,” she says. “What changed me, one day, was watching an elderly neighbour wait, without complaining, while a tourist couple redid the same jump shot four times on her doorstep. Now I shoot before 9am and I move the moment anyone needs to pass.”
On the metro, know which seats aren’t yours
“Your feet hurt, I know. You’ve walked 20,000 steps and the seat is right there,” says Barri. “But the marked seats are reserved for kids, elderly people, pregnant women and parents with small children, and the space by the doors is for prams and wheelchairs. As a parent, I end up asking tourists to move out of that space almost every week, and getting around this city with a small child is hard enough without having to start that conversation. It’s the easiest tip on this list to follow and the one that would change the most.”
Consider other cities apart from Barcelona and Lisbon

Avoid the touristy neighbourhoods – go off the beaten track
“If you do choose to go to a city that is quite touristy, why not make your experience more unconventional by heading on over to Atlas Obscura and finding some unusual places to visit,” adds Cameron-Wood. “You won’t need to deal with the crowds and queues you’ll experience at other more popular sites. I visited the Museo La Neomudéjar, just five minutes away from Atocha station in Madrid, in summer a couple of years ago, for instance. This experimental art gallery in a former 19th-century railway warehouse and training centre is a true gem that I wouldn’t have found if I hadn’t been looking to go somewhere more off the beaten track.”
Lisbon local and activist for Assembleia parar o Hotel no Quartel, a Lisbon protest group demonstrating against luxury hotels in the tourist-saturated neighbourhood of Graça, Maria Prata echoes this sentiment. As a start, she recommends people book accommodation in less busy neighbourhoods, and rather than hotels and Airbnbs, consider home exchanges.
“Mass tourism arrived in the neighbourhood of Graça four years ago, and now our local way of life is struggling,” she says. “In Lisbon, neighbourhood life is being destroyed because almost all local cafés and tascas are becoming chains – it feels like Disneyland. Tourists would be supporting locals if they stopped coming to these neighbourhoods. It’s like when you go to a beautiful nature spot and you understand that sometimes it’s better to stay away so that you don’t interfere with the biosphere. Also, avoid tuk-tuks, or riding fast on bikes – this really interferes with local life.”
Learn more basic expressions – not just ‘hello’ or ‘thank you’
“One thing that causes frustration is the assumption that everyone can speak English,” says Cameron-Wood. “Usually, people have a rough idea of what they are likely to do before going on holiday. Learning how to navigate those interactions in Spanish, or in the language of the destination country, is a great idea. The goal needn’t be perfection, and locals might switch to English if you are in a touristy area, but learning basic expressions shows an interest in the culture and avoids coming across as arrogant.”
In Barcelona, Barri adds: “It’s not Spanish, it’s Catalan. ‘Bon dia’ costs nothing and it tells everyone you know where you actually are. Barcelona constantly gets treated as generic Spain and locals feel that. Two words won’t make you fluent, but I’ve watched them turn a grumpy interaction into a friendly smile.”
You’re not the enemy – locals are aware that the problem isn’t individual tourists
González wants to reiterate that the anti-tourist sentiment in Barcelona and other cities is usually misunderstood. “As much as the slogan says, ‘Tourists go home’, locals are quite aware that individual tourists are not the problem,” he says. “The problem is much bigger, and Spanish and Catalan politicians are responsible for our ‘tourism-oriented economy’. But so far, the attempts to control tourism and tourist apartments don’t seem to be very successful.”







