Muscles, metrosexuals and male tears: the 39 pictures that changed the way we see men (for good and for bad)

have an image of myself in 2011, pushing my newborn son in a big red buggy because he would only nap when in motion. As I traversed the streets of suburban Birmingham, I felt observed, glanced at, commented on in a manner that ranged from pity to reproach to disproportionate admiration. Daft that it should be a remarkable sight, I thought, but there we go. Probably I'd have felt less self-conscious if I'd followed David Bowie's example and – as in one of the images showcased here – worn what looks like a dress.

On depictions of men and women in art history, John Berger famously stated that "men act, women appear". Men were portrayed demonstrating their physical power and readiness for action; to assert their dominance. Just turning that gaze around and using the lens to capture masculinity feels subversive, maybe even a little undermining.

It is odd that a quarter of the way through the 21st century images of men crying see the "weeping Frenchman" during the second world war and Paul Gascoigne's tears during the 1990 World Cup – could still be seen as remarkable. Judith Butler describes masculinity as a , a haunting fiction of invulnerability and toughness that is all the more potent because it's such a lie. We know this, but we've probably all had a part in enforcing it, knowingly or obliviously. Boys are still told they shouldn't be sensitive, that it's somehow shameful.

The 38 photographs here are proof that masculinity has strong connotations, histories and counter-histories; a lot of baggage. We stand in some relation to that baggage however we choose to express ourselves, and an image can either reinforce or challenge those associations.

Anyone with half a mind must feel a certain amount of pity for a man who feels the need to be depicted in his finery, or in a manner that expresses his prowess or authority – see Karen Knorr's photographs satirising the privileged postures of men in gentlemen's clubs – but we're still surrounded by them, like it or not.

Despite the wonderful range here, it's interesting how normatively hench many of the men depicted are, from Eugen Sandow, the father of bodybuilding, to Arnie to Hulk Hogan. There's an absence of the body type enjoyed by roughly 80% of men: basically OK, a bit lumpy, sporadically hairy. We might run a 3k every couple of weeks and feel so pleased with ourselves that we down a bottle of wine and a box of cheese straws the same night.

To judge from our media, one would think we were either waifs or muscle-men. Of course, the super-jacked male form is ubiquitous in film and television now, from Hollywood movies (where you expect it) to depressing ITV crime dramas (where you'd hope for a few more noodle arms and football-shaped tummies). Even the bang-average is barely represented; I feel like cheering when an even slightly flabby man takes his top off.

If there's no body positivity movement for average men, that's because men's bodies are less likely to be scrutinised and judged. Certainly we don't talk about body image much unless it's in the context of the gym. It has only occurred to me in my 40s that I can marginally improve my appearance through exercise (I'm still not fully convinced and suspect I'm wearing myself out for no reason). We can say, "What do you bench?" but can't say, "I'm feeling insecure about my jowls today."

There's a powerful defiance to the camp and the performative, of casually putting on a dress or a sarong as a straight man, already aware of the tedious reactions and thinking: "Yeah, and what of it?" There's also a terrible self-consciousness to masculinity. I find the giant fake Warhammer-figurine shoulders of American football kits absolutely adorable. I'd feel the same about dictators on horseback if they weren't dictators.

Depictions of queer masculinity offer an alternative here, from Leigh Bowery's magnificently confrontational surrealist portraits to Rotimi Fani-Kayode's beautiful, sculptural compositions of black queer men. Deliberately rougher round the edges, Sunil Gupta's Exiles series depicts the underground (then illegal) culture of gay male life in India in the 80s: a furtive glance, a shy smile, the position of a cigarette, a palpable sense of risk.

The current resurgence of the crassest form of strongman masculinity feels overwhelming; a dictatorship of the most dysfunctional, damaged, spiteful elements of the male ego, emotionally dysregulated and outright evil. It's pervasive in the manosphere, but also in government and political administrations. I've heard it described as a death-rattle before it finally goes extinct. That may be wishful thinking.

So many current manifestations of masculinity feel beneath contempt, but maybe they're not. Maybe we should loudly express our contempt for them and hopefully speed their decline. Every significant photograph that enters the collective unconsciousness shifts our reality a little – the power of an image to either bolster or subvert machismo is still profound.

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Arnold Schwarzenegger, 1976. He is posing flexing his biceps and wearing a pair of dark shorts

"He made no effort to seem overpowering," wrote a Gay Times correspondent of Arnold Schwarzenegger in 1978, "but, rather, radiated a mild – nay – sunny, disposition." In the 1970s, Schwarzenegger turned body-building from a niche subculture into a national obsession. He combined an exaggeratedly masculine body with a sense that he was secure in himself. "He accepts the inevitable attention of gay men as a compliment," concluded Gay Times.

Robert Mapplethorpe took this portrait of Schwarzenegger in 1976, a year before the release of Pumping Iron, the hit docudrama that led to his Hollywood stardom. Mapplethorpe, who was celebrated for his images of queer and S&M subcultures, was particularly fond of this photograph, using it for postcards and party invitations. "Hot Dirty Man," went the text over Schwarzenegger's torso on one invitation from 1979. "You are invited to … "

American actor Marlon Brando in character as Stanley Kowalski in the film A Streetcar Named Desire, directed by Elia Kazan, 1950.

"When Marlon Brando appeared on stage in a torn, sweaty T-shirt," wrote Gore Vidal in 1985, "there was an earthquake." Before Brando's breakout performance in A Streetcar Named Desire in 1947, Hollywood leading men had been "nothing but a suit of clothes", Vidal argued. Brando made it OK for a man to be a sex object.

Many of the actor's performances eschewed the buttoned-up vision of masculinity in the films of the 1930s and 1940s. He was emotional, violent and physical. "I'd never seen anything as visceral," wrote the critic Pauline Kael, remembering her first glimpse of Brando on stage in the late 1940s.

Oscar Wilde, 1882, is photographed in a plush jacket sitting on a large upholstered chair and with knee-high socks and fancy shoes

"Great success here," wrote Oscar Wilde of the American speaking tour on which this photograph was taken. "Nothing like it since Dickens, they tell me." Though the 27-year-old had not yet written famous works such as The Importance of Being Earnest and The Picture of Dorian Gray, he was already a society sensation. His tightly controlled performance of a queer, urbane form of masculinity made him famous, but came with great risks. He was later imprisoned for gross indecency with men, and polite society turned on him – perhaps prefigured by newspaper digs at the time about the "effeminate" figure in this portrait.

1918 promotional photograph of Japanese actor Sessue Hayakawa. He is photographed in formal evening wear

You may not recognise him now, but Sessue Hayakawa was one of Hollywood's first heart-throbs. Born in Japan, he moved to the US in early adulthood and broke out as a major matinée idol with a star-making turn as the villainous lead in Cecil B DeMille's The Cheat (1915). He was then one of LA's highest-paid actors. One photographer recalled Hayakawa arriving at a premiere to a horde of female fans who "spread their fur coats at his feet" so he could avoid stepping in a puddle.

As an Asian leading man, Hayakawa had to put up with a lot of racialised typecasting, and anti-miscegenation laws meant his characters never got the girl; when anti-Japanese sentiment rose in the 1920s, his star faded. He did get a late-career comeback, however, with his Oscar-nominated role as the tyrannical Colonel Saito in 1957's The Bridge on the River Kwai.

The Wrestlers, Kordofan, Sudan, 1949

 A Korongo Nuba Tribesman, Victor of a Wrestling Contest, sits on the shoulders of a friend.

Nuba mountain communities in the Kordofan region of Sudan have faced violence from outsiders for centuries, from British colonial authorities to the Khartoum central government. Against this backdrop, a renowned tradition of wrestling tournaments has developed.

This image by Magnum co-founder George Rodger, of a wrestler hoisted on a supporter's shoulders, brought global, and unwelcome, attention to the area. Former Nazi photographer Leni Riefenstahl produced controversial and exoticising work there. "When they found out what was going on, people felt exploited," said Sudanese professor Guma Kunda Komey.

Police officers restrain a man in a family home while a young boy points a finger at him

It's estimated that around one in four women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence by a male partner. Since the early 1980s, the photojournalist Donna Ferrato has dedicated her career to documenting the devastating impacts of these relationships.

This photo is from Ferrato's 1991 book Living With the Enemy, which includes texts based on conversations with victims and perpetrators. Over the course of the project, she spent time in women's shelters as well as riding in police cars and staying in people's homes. Here, an eight-year-old boy, Diamond, shouts at his father as he is being arrested at their home in Minneapolis: "I hate you for hitting my mother."

"I'd never seen a child stand up to his abusive father," Ferrato later recalled. "That blew my mind. The mom hadn't called the cops – the boy called the cops. He had just shown the police where his father had hidden the screwdriver."

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Colonel Roosevelt of the Rough Riders photographed on a horse

"The most masculine president in the American memory," according to one recent biographer of Theodore "Teddy" Roosevelt. He is pictured here on horseback when he was a lieutenant colonel in an army unit known as the Rough Riders.

His carefully crafted butch image was, on closer inspection, a jumble of contradictions. Raised in extreme wealth, he was fond of being photographed in suspiciously pristine working-class clothing. And, plagued by physical infirmities since childhood, he was sensitive to any hint of weakness.

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Photograph of a man sitting in a chair in a gentlemen's club, resting his head on his hand and holding a newspaper.

Karen Knorr's languid photograph, part of a series of 26 images she took in gentlemen's clubs in Mayfair, London, captures how comfortable certain men feel luxuriating in hereditary privilege – "an archetypal image of aristocratic power", in Knorr's words.

Each photograph is paired with a satirical text written by Knorr, who was inspired by parliamentary speeches and books about the British empire. "I wanted to make work that used irony and parody to explore attitudes prevalent amongst the English establishment in the 1980s," she said.

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A topless President Putin rides a horse in southern Siberia's Tuva region

Russian president Vladimir Putin has a penchant for staging topless photo ops – always while partaking in a macho outdoor activity such as horse-riding or hunting. "It is easy to laugh at," says Ruth Ben-Ghiat, author of a book on the political figure of the strongman from Mussolini (who also liked to pose shirtless) to the present. "But the use of masculinity as an authoritarian tool is deadly serious. Strongmen use their bodies to proclaim themselves the defenders of the nation, and yet they often pose as victims as well."

John F  Kennedy looks over at his baby daughter Caroline as she lies in her crib in the nursery at their Georgetown home.

"A vital element has been added to the well-planned and generously financed campaign to make Senator Jack Kennedy president of the United States," reported the North American Newspaper Alliance in 1957: the Kennedys were expecting their first child, Caroline.

A year later, Life magazine staff photographer Ed Clark visited the couple's family home in Georgetown. Clark later recalled that when asked if he could take a photo of the senator with the baby, "Jackie said no, that she was upstairs asleep. But Jack bounded up the stairs, and I followed."

Jackie ended up asking for 75 copies of "that marvellous picture" to give to family and friends. And after JFK became president in 1961, the framed photo was hung in the Oval Office. His identity as a father of small children had become a key part of his public image as a novel breed of male politician: the youthful and vigorous leader of – to borrow his well-known phrase – "a new generation of Americans".

The naked gunner, 1944

Photgraph of a man in a wartime plane with no clothes on, only headphones

This famous shot of a naked aeroplane gunner was captured by Horace Bristol, who was part of a group of photographers recruited to promote US naval aviation during the second world war. The aircraft had been sent to rescue a US marine pilot shot down while attacking Japanese forces at Rabaul Bay in the Pacific.

"One of our crew stripped off his clothes and jumped in … He couldn't have swum very well wearing his boots and clothes," Bristol later recalled. "As soon as we could, we took off." Though the soldier has never been identified, his image quickly became a symbol of male valour and heroism in wartime.

Leigh Bowery is photographed in a low-cut satin dress wearing heavy makeup and what looks to be purple paing dribbling down off his head

"He was a dandy and a great eccentric," remembered Leigh Bowery's friend Donald Urquart in 2004, "in the tradition of Curricle Coates, Bunny Roger, Barbara Cartland, Edith Sitwell, and Quentin Crisp." As a performance artist and "club kid" of the 1980s, Bowery's intricately constructed – and sometimes controversial – outfits and costumes exploded traditional ideas of what a man could look like and what he could do.

In one famous performance, he birthed his friend and later wife, Nicola Bateman, out of a "vagina", with an umbilical string of sausages trailing behind. Another was seen by painter Lucian Freud, who immediately asked Bowery to sit for him.

Bowery died in 1994 at 33 of an Aids-related illness. "I miss him," friend and film-maker John Maybury said last year. "He was like a kinetic beacon, vibrating."

Adrian Street with his coalminer father, 1974

Flamboyant blonde wrestling star in 1970s style glam clothes and high heels pictured in a mine with his father and other men in traditional mining clothes

Adrian Street went by many nicknames, including "the Exotic one", "the Sadist in Sequins" and "the queen bitch of pro wrestling". His catchphrase was, "Imagine what I could do to you," finished with a suggestive, moaning, " …"

In the 70s, the Welsh former coalminer became famous for his taunting, butch, queer-coded persona. For a profile in a national tabloid in 1974, he arranged this striking photograph – much reprinted over the years – down his former pit with his miner father, who had disapproved of his career.

"That look, even though it's outrageous, he would have said it was super-masculine," says artist Jeremy Deller, who made a film with Street before his death in 2023. "It's a challenge, isn't it? You're challenging other people as well as society, so you have to back it up."

Image of a young boy pointing at the camera with a guy while watched by a younger boy

"It's fake violence, a parody," said William Klein of his 1954 photograph. "I asked the boy to point the gun at me and look tough. He did, and then we both laughed." Klein saw the image as a "double self-portrait"; he himself was a mix of "the street kid trying to look tough, and the timid good little boy on the right".

Klein saw it as playful, but the twisted face of the child retains a threatening power.

The weeping Frenchman, 1940

Frenchman Weeping at a flag parade in  Marseille, 1941.

This photograph – actually a still from a newsreel – was first published in Life magazine in 1941, to illustrate the fall of France after the Nazi invasion. As the Germans advanced, the French government decided to send the historic regimental flags of its armies to safety in Africa. Before they were put on ships out of Marseille, a parade was held through the streets of the town. It was here that cameraman Marcel de Renzis caught footage of a French citizen called Jerôme Barzetti weeping as they passed by.

The image is often cited as a rare example of public tears from a man, as taboos around male emotional expression have softened in recent years. A 2016 study found that modern men cry in public more than twice as often as their fathers. Barzetti's tears, however, fit into a long history of martial crying, with roots in Homeric epics. According to one count, men are depicted weeping in the Odyssey more than 30 times.

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Eugene Sandow holds up what appears to be a massive and very heavy dumb-bell

"The most wonderful specimen of man I have ever seen" is how a Harvard professor described Eugen Sandow upon taking his measurements in the 1890s. By then, the Prussian-born athlete was a global fitness star. Today, he is remembered as the father of modern bodybuilding, having organised the world's first major "physique" competition in London in 1901. "He's Arnold Schwarzenegger before Arnold Schwarzenegger," says sports historian Conor Heffernan.

As Heffernan explains, Sandow's "lean and muscular physique" – still aspirational now – had previously been more associated with farmers and sailors than the perfect man. Images such as this helped to reinforce what modern bodybuilders refer to as the "Grecian ideal": a physical type based on statues from the ancient world. (Although appearances can be deceiving, as Heffernan points out: the dumbbell Sandow is lifting is probably empty.)

The Invisible Man, 1952

Photograph of a man shot coming out of a manhole in an image shot from ground level

In Ralph Ellison's novel Invisible Man, the unnamed narrator, an African-American man, hides out in a basement in New York, which he lights with 1,369 bulbs. "Before that I lived in the darkness into which I was chased, but now I see. I've illuminated the blackness of my invisibility – and vice versa," he says, before telling the story of a life that had, until then, been defined by ideas projected on to him due to his race and gender.

Gordon Parks collaborated with Ellison on A Man Becomes Invisible, a photo essay published in Life magazine to promote the book. The striking images recreate key scenes from the narrative; this one shows the final passage, in which the protagonist (played by John Bates, an actor friend of Ellison's) emerges from his underground retreat through a manhole – a reclamation of his place in society.

The Cock (kiss), 2002

A closeup photograph of two male clubbers having a passionate kiss

"You can show two men killing each other at three in the afternoon in any country in the world on public television," said photographer Wolfgang Tillmans in an interview in 2022. "But you can't show two men kissing each other." Ghetto was a cult London venue of the noughties; at a club night there called The Cock, Tillmans captured a tender, passionate moment between two men. When the photograph was exhibited in Washington DC in 2007, one visitor reacted by slashing it with a key. It's since become a symbol of solidarity and resistance: after the shooting at Orlando's gay nightclub Pulse in 2016, many posted Tillmans' photograph as a defiant act of protest.

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Pop star David Bowie on a street with his wife Angie . He is pushing his three-week-old son in a pram

In this photograph, David Bowie is captured pushing a pram with his baby, Zowie, alongside then wife Angie. Laura King, a historian of modern Britain, explains its significance: "In the decades after the second world war, there was a real movement towards what I call family-oriented masculinity. Men often weren't doing anything like what women were doing in terms of looking after children, but fatherhood was very much aligned with masculinity." Pushing a pram became a way to signal your identity as an involved family man.

Bowie – the famously gender-bending icon – wasn't exactly a typical dad of his time. "I don't feel very paternal," he told an interviewer in 1976.

Dancer Juan Pablo Rodríguez stands in a very balletic pose wearing only shorts and trainers while in front of a mainly pink background

"Ballet is woman," proclaimed the choreographer George Balanchine. The idea that it's a dance form for girls persists today, especially in cultures where machismo is dominant.

Against this backdrop, Uruguayan photographer Santiago Barreiro documents the diversity of men's ballet in Latin America. For Barreiro, his subjects offer an example of how traditional gender roles – which he has observed as deeply ingrained in Latin societies – can be deconstructed through art.

This portrait depicts Juan Pablo Rodríguez, a Colombian-born choreographer and principal soloist with the Ballet Nacional del Perú. Rodríguez told Barreiro that he sees freedom of expression as an act of resistance.

Bunny Girls Playboy' publisher Hugh Hefner photographed from above, surrounded by Bunny Girls

Hugh Hefner's urbane, sex-obsessed vision of masculinity "became central to what it meant to be a modern man" in the 1960s, says historian Amber Batura. Hefner would spin Playboy magazine – first published in 1953 thanks to a loan from his mother, among others – into a global empire of clubs, staffed by women wearing distinctive "bunny" uniforms.

Like Ian Fleming's James Bond, Hefner modelled a fantasy of masculinity "as gratifying, masterly play", in the writer Esther Allen's words, "in which women were seen as a sort of consumer product". As Hefner put it himself in 1992: "Much of my life has been like an adolescent dream of an adult life."

Photograph of a man wearing only white pants and a rubber jacket, which he is holding open to expose his chest and abs

"Black men from the third world have not previously revealed either to their own peoples or to the west a certain shocking fact," wrote the Nigerian photographer Rotimi Fani-Kayode in 1988. "They can desire each other."

After training with the US photographer Robert Mapplethorpe in New York, Fani-Kayode moved to London and produced a stunning body of work from his Brixton home studio, before his death from Aids-related complications in 1989.

Mark Sealy, co-editor of a new book of Fani-Kayode's work released this month, calls it a "radical transformation of Black male subjectivity", made at a time when "the Black male subject was wrapped up in violent hostility via the press as muggers and bad guys". Fani-Kayode's work presented a subversive and playful vision of queer Black masculinity "at the height of Aids, in a very, very homophobic society".

André the Giant, 1987

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Hulk Hogan faces off with Andre The Giant during WrestleMania III in a wrestling ring

"The virtue of all-in wrestling is that it is the spectacle of excess," wrote Roland Barthes; wrestlers are performers in a pantomime of rivalry and aggression. This photo depicts one of the most celebrated bouts of all time: the hotly anticipated face-off between Hulk Hogan and André the Giant (also known as Fezzik from The Princess Bride) at WrestleMania III in 1987. Pro wrestling had boomed in popularity and the stakes were raised by a much-publicised feud between the superstars, who were actually good friends. Hogan defeated a 520-pound (37 stone) André with his legendary "bodyslam that was heard around the world".

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A young man with no shirt and a scarf round his neck shouts with joy while surrounded by other fans in jackets and hats

Over the course of his 50-year career, Martin Parr repeatedly trained his camera on the football stadium – though, as a committed chronicler of ordinary British life, he was less interested in the players and more in the fans. In this photograph from 2012, we witness a moment of unbridled euphoria for the supporters of Wolverhampton Wanderers, who have just scored in a home match at Molineux stadium.

"[Football fandom is] a way of people accessing emotions. It's very tribal," Parr said when interviewed in 2022. "It's an important aspect of creating your own identity. Especially for men; it's a very welcome way of letting your emotions go."

There is a dark side, too; recent statistics show that racist and homophobic abuse are on the rise at matches, and there was once again a spike in domestic violence reports during this year's World Cup.

Billy Porter on the red carpet in a tuxedo dress - it is a traditional tux on top but then turns into a full b


The actor Billy Porter is known for his audacious, gender-fluid red carpet fashion. "This look was interesting because it's not drag," he told Vogue of this gown, which he famously wore to the Oscars. "I'm not a drag queen. I'm a man in a dress." Inspired by a Renoir painting, and made at short notice in over a week of 18-hour days by designer Christian Siriano, Porter's tuxedo dress garnered huge attention, coming just a month after he wore a bright pink cape to the Globes, which in his words "changed everything for me". The dress was later displayed in the Victoria and Albert Museum, and has its own (extensive) Wikipedia page.

Man With a Box. Fully Automated Nikon, 1973

Photograph of a man in jacket and tie and tweed hat, smoking a cigarette and holding a largish cardboard box


"I decided to shoot pictures of men who made comments to me on the street," Anderson wrote of her 1973 series titled Fully Automated Nikon (Object/Objection/Objectivity). The artist displayed the images with white strips over catcallers' eyes, granting them anonymity while also symbolically taking away their ability to objectify her.

Very brightly coloured photograph on men in very colourful closing against a yellow backdrop


"Growing up in Morocco, we were definitely not scared of colour," Moroccan-British photographer Hassan Hajjaj has said. His playful portraits blend north African textiles with markers of global consumerism; his sitters often wear clothes designed by him.

This image was part of Hajjaj's recent My London Rockstars series featuring portraits of artists in the capital, including Our Motherland Collective, a skateboarding crew that has transformed into an arts group.

"The people in the pictures come from all different parts of the world, and when you start putting them next to each other, it becomes a positive image," Hajjaj has said of his work that explores identity and multiculturalism. If his photos make a young person think, "Oh I can be that person," or, "I can be the person taking that picture," he says, "that's the greatest feeling you can have as an artist".

India Gate from the series Exiles, 1987

Photograph of two men embracing in front of an impressive arch.


"I had a personal motivation to establish an Indian gay presence in art history," says the artist and photographer Sunil Gupta, who was born in New Delhi in 1953; he later settled in London in the 1970s. "It was hard for me to be postmodern because I had no references. So I decided to make the references." He wanted to "visualise" the experience of gay men in Delhi.

Initially, "nobody wanted to be in the picture" – homosexuality in India wasn't decriminalised until 2018. Eventually, Gupta was introduced to a network of gay men who agreed to model for the project Exiles (1986–87). The accompanying texts came from interviews he'd conducted at cruising sites around the city.

Photograph of muscly man without a top on cradling a very young baby

This year marks the 40th anniversary of one of the bestselling posters of all time: a photograph of a hunky man cradling a baby. Paul Rodriguez, art director of the poster retailer Athena, conceived the idea and recruited photographer Spencer Rowell. The image tapped into the archetype of masculinity that emerged in western culture in the 1980s: the New Man, who rejected sexist ideas around domesticity.

The model is Adam Perry, who later claimed to have leveraged the poster's fame to sleep with more than 3,000 women – not quite a New Man, after all.

Pregnant man1970

A man looking very sorry for himself has one hand on his back and another cradling his pregnant belly

"Ever since that picture of a pregnant man was sprung on an astonished nation," wrote a Daily Mirror columnist in 1970, "we men haven't been able to stop wondering what would happen if we really did become pregnant."

The public information poster, dreamed up by ad company Cramer Saatchi, caused a storm when it was released, aimed at increasing the "sexual responsibility of the male".

Photographer Alan Brooking, now 98, remembers an extended search for the perfect model – a man in possession of "the subtle kind of embarrassment that one might expect in that situation".

Congo's sapeurs, 2019

Photograph of a very dapper man dancing outside a blue house while a woman watches on

"It is like a resistance movement for peace," journalist and photographer Justin Makangara says of the sapeurs. "They are fighting with clothes." The sapeurs of the twin Congolese capitals of Brazzaville and Kinshasa have become famous for their style.

Until recently, many regarded the sapeurs as "foolish, hooligans, idiot people" for spending so much money on flashy clothes. Recently, however, Makangara has seen a change in their public perception. Most sapeurs – like Celestin Moundounga, the 48-year-old technician here – hold down respectable jobs and are "responsible to the needs of their families". And as the civil war grinds on in the east of the Democratic Republic of Congo, their way of life suggests that "even in conflict, we can try to be in joy".

David Beckham on a night out, wearing a sarong holds the hand of Victoria Adams hand


It was the 1998 World Cup in France, a peak moment for British lad culture. Then David Beckham was photographed wearing a Jean Paul Gaultier wrap. The Sun ran the photo alongside the headline "Beckham has got his Posh frock on".

The footballer has stood by the look. "Sarongs are great," he said in 2014. "I would still wear it now." Today his bold outfit is recognised for cementing Beckham's role as the poster boy for a new type of heterosexual male ideal: the fashion-forward metrosexual of the 2000s.

Portraits of the Taliban2001

Photograph of two men in traditional Afghan dress holding hands


Thomas Dworzak was on a photographic assignment covering the fall of the Taliban when he stumbled on a set of highly stylised studio portraits of soldiers of the former regime in a photo shop. The fighters had probably died before they could pick them up.

"I was very surprised, of course," he says. The Taliban had famously banned all photography of living beings. He bought the prints – the beginning of a collection eventually published in the 2003 photobook Taliban.

In the secretly commissioned portraits, the fighters pose against pastel-coloured and scenic backdrops and hold props such as flowers and guns. Here, two men clasp hands. The unmistakably "camp aesthetic", Dworzak explains, was "not specific to the Taliban" – such images can be found across the region. But they also couldn't be further from what we expect a militant soldier to look like.

Daniel Craig in casual clothes and using a baby carrier - just visible is the top of a baby's head in a hat


The sight of a man with a baby strapped to him was too much for Piers Morgan in 2018, who posted this picture with the hashtag #emasculatedBond. Men responded in their thousands with photographs of themselves similarly "emasculated" – including wrestling star Adam Copeland holding his child while dressed as Elsa from Frozen. "Any man who wastes time quantifying masculinity," tweeted actor Chris Evans at the time, "is terrified on the inside."

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Mods on a rooftop brandish deckchairs as rockers in leather gear try to climb up on the roof


The clashes that arise between differing factions of masculinity could be summed up by this photograph of a brawl between mods and rockers in Brighton in 1964. That summer, long-standing tensions between the competing youth subcultures erupted in a series of confrontations during bank holiday weekends in seaside towns across the south of England.

It's now thought that the extent of the fighting was overplayed at the time – a moral panic stirred up by the establishment about the youth of the day. But the rivalry was real enough.
The rockers, who rode high-speed customised motorcycles known as "cafe racers", mockingly compared the Italian scooters of the "sissy" mods to their "mums' hairdryers". As one mod put it to a BBC interviewer at the time: "You can't just stand and let a load of kids take the mick out of you, can you?"

Two Hells Angels riding motorcycles in Bakersfield, California, USA.


Hells Angels – the motorcycle gang founded in California – haunted the US psyche in the 1960s. They modelled a rebellious, hyper-masculine image, but were also – for the time – provocatively homoerotic, frequently giving each other "a sloppy wet kiss", in writer Hunter S Thompson's words. "It blows their minds," said one Hells Angel of the effect on "squares" – "especially the tongue bit".

Portrait of a young American football player. He is holding his helmet revealing his very long dark hair hanging over his football shirt

An interest in "performing masculinity" – which she first explored in San Francisco's butch lesbian community in the 1990s – eventually led photographer Catherine Opie to high school football. Her portraits of star players, taken just after practice, show "adolescent boys beginning to form and perform for the first time an image-ideal of manhood", in the words of one critic.

Opie also linked the series to the various wars that the US was involved in at the time. "So many young men were having to make very interesting choices between sports scholarships and becoming a soldier," she has said. "It was actually very emotional."

A Scottish Pub, 1968

Men are lined up, leaning against a bar in a pub in the Gorbals district of Glasgow.

Historically, pubs and other drinking places were considered a "masculine republic", somewhere for the menfolk to gather while their wives stayed at home. The notion of the watering hole as an almost exclusively male space – with notable exceptions granted to barmaids, landladies and loose women – is summed up in this image of an establishment in the working-class Gorbals district of Glasgow in 1968.

German-born Schadeberg, best-known for his portraits of life in South Africa under apartheid, had been sent to the Gorbals to document an area in rapid transition: the old tenements were being pulled down and replaced by modernist housing.

Paul Gascoigne crying at the World Cup, 1990

Paul Gascoigne holds his football shirt to his face as he cries at the end of the semi/final against Germany in the 1990 World Cup.


"I had let down the fans, my team-mates, the manager, everybody," remembered Paul Gascoigne in 2020. "I cried because I thought it was the end of my career."

In 1990, 23-year-old Gazza had already captured the hearts of the public for his skill in the World Cup. When he burst into tears after receiving a yellow card for tackling a West German player, the nation erupted with a mixture of sympathy and, eventually, mockery.
Today, public male tears are a relatively uncontroversial part of major sports tournaments, with everyone from Tiger Woods to Roger Federer having a good sob.

Original source Muscles, metrosexuals and male tears: the 39 pictures that changed the way we see men (for good and for bad)

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