New Welsh Labour leader opens up about decades-long struggle with anxiety and depression

Ken Skates smiling off to the side of the image, wearing a dark suit and red and white tie, with a pin stripe shirt.

Welsh Labour's new leader has opened up about the struggles he has had with anxiety and depression since childhood.

Ken Skates said he sought help after his symptoms were at their most severe while studying at the University of Cambridge and he was eventually diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder and depression.

He described feeling detached from himself, as though he was "watching" his own life, adding that "nothing feels real".

Skates said he still recognised the anxiety that affected him as a child and young adult, but has learned to manage it through treatment and talking therapies.

Born in Wrexham, the Member of the Senedd (MS) for Fflint Wrecsam was confirmed as Welsh Labour leader last month.

It followed spectacular losses for the party in May's Senedd election, ending 27 years of Welsh Labour rule.

Plaid Cymru formed a new Welsh government, Reform became the largest opposition party in Cardiff Bay, and Labour returned just nine MSs out of a total of 96.

Skates spoke to BBC's Walescast as part of a series of interviews over the summer with leading Welsh politicians.

He remembered being an anxious child who was "always keen to please" and eager to avoid conflict - traits he still recognises in himself today.

Ken Skates standing in front of a large window inside a wood-panelled room. The person is wearing a white polo shirt featuring the Ryder Cup 2012 "Medinah" logo. Beside him is a wooden display cabinet containing decorative items, while trees and a red-brick building are visible through the window behind.

Skates grew up near Mold, Flintshire, and was the first member of his family to go to university.

He said his childhood was shaped by the industrial decline that followed large-scale job losses at Shotton steelworks, where both of his parents worked, and that left him with a strong sense of injustice, helping draw him into politics.

His mental health struggles "really manifested in an obvious way" at Cambridge and he struggled to get through university.

"Where I went was unfamiliar to me, it was like nowhere I'd ever been before, and there were practices and behaviours that were completely alien to me," he added.

"I'd never worn a jacket before, or a blazer, let alone a gown.

"To do that in the first few days, while having wine tasting, set me off I think, and made me question: 'Why am I here? What am I doing here? This is not me. I'm really worried about this place.'

"It got worse and worse, this feeling that I didn't really belong here."

Skates began experiencing dissociation, a symptom associated with anxiety and depression and described it as feeling detached from himself and reality.

"It feels like you're dreaming your day away," he said.

After initially struggling to get help, he was diagnosed and prescribed antidepressants, but he had experienced anxiety long before then.

"Actually growing up, I was incredibly anxious. Really anxious," he said.

"I was always keen to please. And I think it was about just this need to avoid conflict."

Asked whether those feelings remained with him today, Skates replied: "Yeah, definitely. But I'm very mindful of it."

He said talking therapies had helped him understand his condition and develop ways of managing it.

"That was just like a game changer."

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