As the cycle of hot weather peaks and troughs, so does the attention span of schoolchildren in the middle of their summer holidays – and parents are faced with the question: how can we keep the kids entertained until the September term starts?
The answer does not have to be to plop a child in front of the television, or hand them a smartphone. There are several toys designed to distract them for hours on end – without a screen in sight.
“The aim is to choose toys that can grow with your child and keep them engaged,” says Dr Shruti Nathwani, an NHS GP with paediatric training, and mother-of-two. When chosen well, Shruti says, children will return to these toys time and again, no matter their age.
Five parenting experts share their favourite and affordable children’s games – from the cheapest card game at £6, to a camera at just £29. All the experts are united on one thing: the best toys are those that allow and encourage imagination and, if possible, movement.
Ukraine launches ‘massive’ drone attack more than 600 miles inside Russia

Ukraine has launched a deadly drone attack on a major Russian oil refinery, the regional authorities have said.
What happened?
Ukraine launched a drone attack on a major Russian oil refinery in the Tatarstan region, more than 600 miles into the country.


The mayor of Nizhnekamsk, Radmir Belyayev, now says at least 12 people have been killed and a further 39 injured in the attack on the city.
Watch the fallout from the attack on the Russian oil refinery
Recent attacks on Russian oil
The TANECO refinery, owned by Russian oil company Tatneft, is located in Nizhnekamsk and was also hit by Ukraine in early June.
On 6 July, Kyiv struck Russia’s biggest oil refinery in Omsk – more than 1,500 miles from the Ukrainian border – and forced it to halt operations.

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez announces decision to freeze eggs
New York Democratic congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez has revealed that she has decided to freeze her eggs.
What happened?
Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (AOC), 36, has announced she is going to freeze her eggs and will be sharing the process online.
The congresswoman revealed her decision to undergo fertility treatment in a series of Instagram stories this weekend. “This is a choice that I am making to feel more in control of my life,” Ocasio-Cortez said.
Why is AOC sharing her journey publicly?
I think it’s important for us as leaders to have these conversations and share these processes.
In an interview on , Ocasio-Cortez also said she wanted to “normalise” conversations about the process, adding that it was important “especially in this political environment”.

How cutting exercise drives up likelihood of cancer

According to new research, dropping even just a few minutes of vigorous exercise every day can push up the risk of cancer.
Here is everything you need to know.
What are the risks?
Experts have found that swapping exercise for more sedentary behaviour – such as watching an episode of a TV soap opera or sitting at a desk – drives up the cancer risk by up to 15 per cent.


They also warned that people who have been active during their lives should do all they can to maintain exercise, as even small drops in activity can affect health.
What does the research show?

What was studied?
The research, published in , looked at people’s lifestyles to find the link between exercise cancer risk.
Who was studied?
The analysis included 59,218 people (55 per cent female) with an average age of 61.7 from the UK.


The outcome
The research found that the more people moved, the lower their risk of cancer.
What can you do to reduce the risk?
- 1Replacing 15 minutes of sedentary behaviour with 15 minutes of movement were each linked to a 2 per cent reduced risk of cancer.
- 2Swapping 30 minutes of movement for 30 minutes of sedentary behaviour increased the risk by 8 per cent.
- 3While swapping it for sleep increased the risk by 7 per cent.
The expert view
The take-home message is that for people already leading physically active lives, it’s really important to maintain that level of activity as you get older.
Dr John Mitchell, lead author from University College London

Are you having as much sex as everyone else?
It’s natural for libido to wax and wane due to life events, dating status or hormonal changes.
And it can be hard to say what a “normal” sexual frequency is. But research and case studies give us a rough idea.

The statistics
When it happens
61%
A 2023 survey concluded that almost two thirds (61 per cent) of us wait until night-time to have sex.
Only 14 per cent opt to get busy in the early evening, and 10 per cent in the morning.
Research from 2019 suggests that the average number of times British live-in or married couples have sex per month is three.

Are Gen Z having less sex than older people?
I see my partner on the weekends and have sex with others in the week.
Leanne, a 27-year-old influencer from Bristol has sex three or four times a week, but only sees her long-distance partner on the weekends. They have agreed they can both sleep with other people during the week.
35-year-old Rebecca usually sleeps with her partner once or twice per week due to not having much child-free time.


Clare, 32, says her job is busy and she has to schedule sex with her partner on weekends, or some afternoons twice a month. “Occasionally this slips and I do worry that it makes us not as connected,” she says.

I haven’t had the issue of my sex life drying up with menopause. I’m more aroused now.
I’ve been married for 15 years. I love my husband, but our sex life is non-existent, and has been for about five years.


I’m not really motivated to seek out partners; I vaguely like the idea of it but not enough to take any action.
I’ve been married for 20 years and sex has become something of a rarity. We maybe have sex once a week on a Sunday morning as we’re both relaxed and I can take Viagra late on Saturday night – without it, I can’t perform.
JACK, 63, OFFICE WORKER, KENT


The seven rules that could save your marriage
Keep your sense of self
I did what I thought I was supposed to do and forgot my needs and wants. I think it’s really important that you’re an individual and not just a person who is married.
KATIE STRATFORD*, A 55-YEAR-OLD MUM OF TWO, WHO DIVORCED ATER 19 YEARS

Seven rules to save your marriage

The small things
Small things, like being brought a cup of tea or saying thank you, make a big difference.
Karen Deulofeu, who ended her six-year marriage, believes all couples should seek support, even before they think they need it.


Listen properly by repeating what you have heard and ask if you’ve got that right.
Don’t lose communication
People don’t talk about the deep issues; nobody else is going to do it for you. You don’t want to ask questions because it might rock the boat…you have to keep talking, and talk about what it is that you want within the relationship to keep going forward.
KATIE STRATFORD

Seven rules to save your marriage
Remember that things change
“What you see on social media and what friends say is quite often the nice version. Everything is a phase,” says Deulofeu.


Look at yourself first
“Focus on what’s in your control and what you can do differently, rather than the other person or a situation that you can’t control. Invest in understanding yourself,” she adds.
There are things that all mid-life men should know about keeping their hearts healthy.
From eating more purple fruit to avoiding large bowls of pasta, consultant cardiologist Dr Zoe Astroulakis [below] shares her simple lifestyle habits she wishes her patients would take on board.

Positive changes to make
Swap ‘bad’ fats for healthy ones
You don’t need to eat a fat-free diet; the key is to reduce your saturated fat. Reduce your dairy and swap your red meat for lean meat such as chicken and oily fish.


Control your portions
You don’t need more carbohydrates in a meal than you can fit in your hand. Enormous plates of pasta can cause blood sugar spikes, which can lead to health problems.
Positive changes to make

Look for purple
Blueberries, black grapes and aubergines are great for boosting “good” cholesterol.
Have oats
Porridge is one of the healthiest breakfast options because it’s full of soluble fibre.


Stop taking cocaine
It can provoke a massive heart attack, even in younger people who don’t have existing artery problems.
Positive changes to make
Do cardio too
Don’t only focus on lifting weights. It might make you look toned, but it says nothing about the health of your heart.


Check your levels
You can get free blood pressure checks in many pharmacies or you can buy a monitor for around £30 to use at home.
Avoid night shifts
It disrupts the body’s circadian rhythm and can lead to increased cholesterol.

Want a new career but worried it’s too late?
Mid-life is not too late to start again, says experienced recruiter Elizabeth Willetts [below].
Here, Willetts shares the best jobs to switch to during midlife if you want a change – without sacrificing pay.

Changing careers in your fifties
Mid-life career pivots can lead to higher earnings.
7.4%
According to the Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development, workers aged 45 to 54 who voluntarily pivot jobs see an average wage growth of 7.4 per cent.
3.5%
And those aged 55 to 64 still see a 3.5 per
cent increase.
The AARP Global Employee Survey also found that over half of workers who changed jobs voluntarily experienced improvements in work flexibility and mental health.
So what job options are there?
Virtual assistant
As a virtual assistant your workload will be very varied and it could be anything from tidying inboxes, booking travel, sending invoices or updating spreadsheets.


You can start out earning around £20 to £35 an hour, but it can scale into agency work, launch support or even project management. Some earn very well.

What it involves
You will source, screen and interview candidates to match them with the right job roles.
Who it’s for
You don’t need any qualifications but it’s suited to communicators and commercially-minded people.


The pay
The salary van vary from £25 to £50k, but you can earn around £100k depending on commission.
Jobs to switch to in your fifties

Estate agent
It offers flexible hours and weekend staff can earn £15 per hour.
This form of coaching for businesses could earn around £250 to £1,000 per day.


In the lower end, a sales rep can make £30k and on the higher end £50-60k, plus commission.
Why coaching is a good option
Coaching is incredibly varied and can be anything from career coaching, to confidence and leadership coaching.
- As it is an unregulated industry, you don’t need qualifications but the more reputable option is the International Coaching Federation.
- It’s a great career option for older people because clients genuinely value your wealth of life experience.
- It’s flexible, scalable, and you can start doing it part-time alongside another role.
- It could make you anything from £200 an hour, all the way up to £500 p/h+.

This can be across HR, operations, marketing, finance, people strategy or project management, as it’s varied.
Price on value, not hours – if your advice saves a client £200k, charging £150 an hour undersells what you’re worth.

Do some foods leave
you feeling hungry rather than satiated? Experts say there are…
Foods that leave you hungrier
A bowl of cereal and glass of orange juice
More refined cereals are digested quickly, and fruit juice, whilst one of your five-a-day, contains less fibre than whole fruit. This might mean you find yourself hungry again within 1-2 hours of eating this breakfast.


Swap the orange juice for a whole orange, the cereal for oats and milk or serve it with Greek yoghurt or a boiled egg. This would increase the fibre and protein content; two nutrients strongly linked with fullness.
Foods that leave you hungrier

These pastries are made primarily from refined flour and butter, and are relatively low in protein and fibre.
Toast and jam


Shop-bought packs can contain a lot of white rice, which is digested quickly, and the protein content is often modest.
Foods that leave you hungrier

Vegetable soup
On its own, it is often very low in protein and calories, so hunger can return quickly.
Unless it’s loaded with veggies, it’s probably pretty low in fibre.


Liquids are generally less filling as they require little chewing which may not trigger satiety signals.
Foods that leave you hungrier

Snack bars
They are ideal for a quick pick-me-up, but if reducing hunger is what you’re after, it’d be better to swap it out.
Low-fat yoghurt
A full-fat plain Greek yoghurt with berries and seeds tends to be much more filling due to the protein, fat and fibre.


On an empty stomach, it can actually increase your appetite.
What to eat instead
Instead of thinking about avoiding foods, think about what you can add to them.
- Add beans, lentils or shredded chicken to your vegetable soup and pasta.
- Thicken your smoothies with Greek yoghurt, chia seeds and oats.
- Apple slices with peanut butter, yogurt with berries and hummus with oat biscuits are better snack options than a pre-made snack bar.
- Have alcohol alongside a balanced meal containing protein and fibre.
For the under-5s
Modelling dough & tools
Play-Doh super colour kit with 18 tubs & 15 accessories, ,
“When my son was little, he went through a phase of wanting to ‘fix’ absolutely everything,” says Dr Ahmar Ferguson, a child and educational psychologist and father to an 11-year-old boy. “We’d use modelling dough alongside a small toy hammer and other child-safe tools, and he’d spend ages pretending to repair things around the house. The freedom to create his own ideas and stories kept him so engaged,” he reflects. “The squeezing and shaping helps children to develop strength and coordination.”
Rocket launcher
Flying Rocket Toy, £16.50, Jaques London
“A rocket launcher keeps my three-year-old twins entertained for hours,” says Ciara McClarey, a clinical specialist paediatric physiotherapist. “They’re having fun but also practising single-leg balance as they stand on one leg then stomp the other foot to launch the rocket.” Nichola Ludlam-Raine, dietitian, author and mother to a seven-year-old boy and four-year-old girl, agrees. “It helps burn off some energy while introducing ideas such as force and distance without it feeling educational.”
Farmyard animal set
KidFarm Montessori Inspired Farm Animal Learning Toys, £18.90, Jackie’s Kids
McClarey also sings the praises of a simple farm animal and barn toy set: “The adorable farm animals can be used as finger puppets and for imaginative play, and help with learning numbers and colours. I even use them in clinic. I’ll place them on a sofa to encourage pulling to a stand and learning to walk, as the toddlers are so motivated to play with them.”
Ice cream shop
Melissa & Doug Scoop & Ice Cream Cone Playset, £19.99, Boots
“Pretend play toys like an ice cream shop are brilliant for keeping younger children engaged: one minute they’re running a shop, then they’re the customer, the next they’re serving family members and making up stories,” says Shruti. “I love toys that spark imagination while naturally encouraging language and social skills.”
Stepping stones
Play Factory Stepping Stones, £19.99, Smyths
“If you’re trying to burn off some summer holiday energy, a set of stepping stones is fantastic,” says Shruti. “They encourage active play indoors or outdoors, and children love creating their own obstacle courses, which keeps them entertained while building confidence and coordination.” Former deputy headteacher, early years advisor, and mum-of-three, Alana Revell-Rohr says, “However your child likes to play, they will be able to play with them. They can be seats at a low table, or even bowls – we use them for collecting leaves out in the garden and for filling with water. It’s a toy that my children keep on coming back to.”

For five to eight-year-olds
Lego or blocks
LEGO 10713 Classic Creative Suitcase, £12.65, Amazon
You can now make Lionel Messi, a replica road bike or scenes from Lord of the Rings using specialist LEGO sets. “But actually, if we want children to play for longer, we should give them creative sets with no specific instructions so that they can make up their own creations,” says Revell-Rohr. “Construction toys have lasting value because children are not limited to making one particular thing,” agrees Ahmar. “Open-ended play also allows children to adapt their idea without an adult stepping in. These toys offer the right balance of challenge, creativity and problem-solving, whatever a child’s age.’
Garden games
Bag of Garden Games, ,
“You can’t go wrong with a selection of garden games and this set includes everything from a hula hoop and skipping rope, to a bat and ball,” says McClarey. “These games also help teach and develop fundamental movement skills for this age group such as skipping, throwing, catching, and hand-eye co-ordination.”
£19.99, Science Gifts
“Simple fidget toys like this can be great for long journeys or quieter moments during the holidays,” says Shruti. “They keep hands busy, and when we gifted these to our son’s seven-year-old friends, we found the boys went mad for them; they loved creating different shapes and loved the patterns on them – and I think girls would too.”
Poo bingo board game
Poo Bingo, £18.99, Waterstone’s
“Children in this age group generally find anything poo-related hilarious!” says Nichola. “It’s a fun family game that can hold their attention while also helping with matching, observation and turn-taking. It’s easy to learn, so adults don’t have to spend half an hour explaining the rules before everyone can play.”

For eight to 12-year-olds
Card games
UNO, £11.99, John Lewis; Monopoly deal, £6, Argos; Dobble, £12, Argos
“Card games are one of my favourite recommendations because they bring the whole family together. They keep children entertained for long periods while also encouraging strategic thinking and learning how to win and lose graciously,” says Shruti. “Games with short rounds work well because children can learn them quickly but still want to play repeatedly,” adds Ahmar. “My 11-year-old still enjoys quick games, especially Dobble! They often become part of our evenings or something we take away with us.”
Instant camera
Kids Camera Instant Print, £29.91, Debenhams
“Giving children a camera encourages them to explore, be creative and look at the world through a different lens – my son recorded an entire Indian wedding we went to on his!” says Shruti. “On our recent France road trip, he was just snapping away, and now he’s making a scrapbook to look back on.”
Water pistols
As the heatwave continues, “a water pistol can create hours of inexpensive outdoor fun,” says Nichola. “Children can devise their own games, races and target challenges, rather than simply spraying one another. Just establish a few ground rules beforehand, particularly around faces, younger children and anyone who doesn’t want to join in.”
Badminton set
Decathlon Kids’ Badminton Set 130, £15, Argos
“Badminton is easy to pick up without needing to be particularly sporty, and inexpensive sets can be used in the garden, park or on holiday,” says Nichola. “Children can play competitively, or work together to keep a rally going while still feeling relaxed and sociable. We love ours!”

MakeDo kit
JONEG Cardboard Construction Tool Building Set, £21, Amazon
If you’ve got a garage full of flattened cardboard that needs recycling, a MakeDo kit can repurpose this rubbish to become days of fun for your children. “My eldest has been making castles with his kit, while my four-year-old absolutely loves using the screws and just screwing them into cardboard,” says Alana. “The screws are really good quality, the tools work very well and there are lots of ideas on the MakeDo website to encourage a really meaningful summer project for eight- to 12-year-olds.”
Gravity maze
Gravity Maze Game, £19.99, Smyth’s Toys
“Logic games like this strike a great balance between entertainment and learning,” says Shruti of this marble maze toy. “Children are so focused on solving the challenge that they don’t realise they’re practising planning, flexible thinking and resilience every time something doesn’t quite work the first time.”







